Do not be afraid to give up on him, in a dream she says to the daughter-in-law

You are free to save yourself

This choice of giving or not giving up, it's none of her business, so why

is she urgently asserting her opinion on this matter - because, it must be

her way of mothering, her compulsion to hold hostage whom she loves

and must fix, except now, in the pretense of being a mother in law

she is lightening her load, flying home with less baggage than she brought.